Life Is How You Make It: Make Decisions Wisely
May 21st, 2009
A single decision may affect the rest of your life. Yes, it is always nerve-racking to make decisions, because there is the possibility that from this one big decision, all things could go wrong. That is why it is normal for people to weigh the pros and cons first, whatever aspect of life that decision may affect, to make sure they make the wisest decision. But there is always the threat of regret. Because sometimes, even after studying all the available choices and believing to have arrived at the wisest decision, something just goes wrong. Fortunately, there is a simple process that can help you make wise decisions in your life. Ask yourself these questions and you will make better decisions for sure.
1. What will I gain from this option? Of course, when prompted for decisions, we are challenged with options. But the ultimate question is, “what will I gain from choosing this option?” Oftentimes, if an option offers more rewards, we tend to take the risk. Otherwise, we decline that choice. A tip is to go for that choice which you feel is worth risking.
2. What do I have to lose from this option? If there is something to gain, then there is something to lose. So, ask yourself: “what will I lose if this option doesn’t work out?” It’s not being pessimistic; it’s more of being on your toes on what huge losses a wrong decision can result into. What’s the worst thing that could happen if you choose this option? As one author said, “begin with the end in mind.” If choosing a particular option will not bring positive impact in your life, then that is not the right choice for you. However, if you believe that choosing this option will be a better choice, then by all means, go for it.
There is never a guaranteed right decision, but save yourself from the woes of wrong decision-making. Be objective when weighing options, follow your intuition, and do the best you can.
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