What to Do with the House After the Divorce

Filed under Coping with divorce, May 21st, 2009 by admin

When a married couple decides to call it quits, it’s not just a matter of reverting back to singlehood.  Years, memories, and properties that used to be shared will be subject to scrutiny and to settlement.  One of the properties that need to be settled during a divorce is the family home, that house or shelter where the kids grew up in, where memories were made, where money was poured into in its purchase and upkeep.  If there were no pre-nuptial agreements that delegate the properties that each party would receive in the event that they separate, the delegation of ownership and custody will need some serious discussion.  Just like how certain properties are divided, ownership of the house or how it will be handled should be part of the divorce proceedings.  The following are some of your options regarding the house after a divorce.

Leave it with the one with the kids.

One option is to leave the home to the parent who has custody of the children.  Also, if the mother has no other means to support herself, some courts may decide to award ownership of the home to her.  Some divorced couples may amicably agree to this arrangement, some even going so far as agreeing to pay the remaining mortgage fees.  However, who gets ownership of the home also gets any debt or unpaid mortgage fees from it.

Sell it to a different owner and then split the price.

However, for those who’d rather move on with their lives, selling the house is also a good option.  If neither one of the concerned parties can afford to pay for the mortgage fees and the upkeep of the home, then a good way to settle the ownership of the home is to just sell it and split the profits.  However, as to how much each party can get out of the house needs to be discussed thoroughly.

Buy out the other half’s share.

Some divorcees who want to have the rights to the home can offer to buy out their ex’s share.  The price is something that needs to be discussed thoroughly before settling for a deal.  Divorced couples may opt for out-of-court settlements for this matter or may settle with their lawyers present.

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